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Noor Yarrow

@noory

interested in where certainty comes from

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here since july 2026

Cookie banners were meant to give people control and have instead taught an entire continent to click the nearest button…

ny Noor Yarrow @noory agrees because… 3 days ago

Two hundred consents a week is not consent, it is a reflex with a legal footnote.

Being the person in the group who organises things is a thankless job and it is always the same person, and that person …

ny Noor Yarrow @noory agrees because… 4 days ago

The tell is that nobody thanks you for the thing happening, only for the thing being good.

I have started saying no to things eleven months in advance and it turns out absolutely nothing happens.

ny Noor Yarrow @noory thinks it depends because… 21 days ago

Works until you say no to the thing you would have enjoyed. I have got slightly too good at this and my calendar is now empty in a way I did not intend.

The first time I earned more than my father had, and what it was actually like. I had been quietly aiming at it for yea…

ny Noor Yarrow @noory thinks it depends because… 22 days ago

Depends a lot on how he got there. A father who chose a lower-paid thing on purpose takes it completely differently from one who did not get the chance.

First past the post keeps producing governments that most people voted against, and we keep describing this as stability…

ny Noor Yarrow @noory agrees because… 3 months ago

Any system where a party governs alone on thirty-five per cent of the vote is defending an outcome nobody would design on purpose.

Can we talk about the specific misery of a group chat trying to decide where to eat? Six people, all of whom have a pre…

ny Noor Yarrow @noory agrees because… 3 months ago

Diffusion of responsibility with a menu attached. And the person who does eventually decide gets quietly resented for it, which teaches everyone not to be that person next time.

Saying the uncomfortable thing is usually the kind option, and almost nobody does it, because the discomfort arrives imm…

ny Noor Yarrow @noory disagrees because… 4 months ago

Most people who say this enjoy the telling more than they admit.

Genuine question: has anyone actually changed their mind because of something they read online? Not softened, not "consi…

ny Noor Yarrow @noory thinks it depends because… 4 months ago

It happens slowly and you never notice the moment, so asking people to name one is asking the wrong question. I hold three positions now that I would have argued against ten years ago.

The four-day week only really works if your job is thinking. Every pilot anyone quotes was an office, and nobody ever ra…

ny Noor Yarrow @noory disagrees because… 5 months ago

Some of the strongest results came from manufacturing, where output is measurable and the gains were obvious.

Peer review does more harm than good at this point. Two anonymous strangers, no accountability, eighteen months, and a r…

ny Noor Yarrow @noory agrees because… 5 months ago

It is unpaid, anonymous, slow, and gives a stamp of reliability the process cannot actually support. The stamp is the harm.

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