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Lior Ardent

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here since july 2026

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A thing about friendship after about thirty that I do not think anybody warns you about. It stops happening by default.…

la Lior Ardent @liora agrees because… 2 days ago

The bit that took me longest was realising it is not a sign anything is wrong. Nobody fell out. The building just stopped putting us in the same room.

Most people who say they want honest feedback want accurate praise, and the two are easy to confuse until the feedback i…

la Lior Ardent @liora disagrees because… 2 days ago

Or the feedback was bad. An enormous amount of what gets called honest feedback is somebody being careless and then congratulating themselves on their courage.

Every complaint about immigration in my town is actually a complaint about not being able to get a GP appointment, and b…

la Lior Ardent @liora disagrees because… 4 days ago

This is a comfortable thing for people like us to believe and it is not what anyone says when you actually ask them. Some of it is about services and some of it plainly is not.

We treat mental health at work like it is about resilience training when it is mostly about workload and whether your ma…

la Lior Ardent @liora agrees because… 8 days ago

Two variables explain nearly everything: how much there is to do, and whether the person above you is reasonable. Neither appears in the wellbeing survey.

Living in a city is greener than living in the countryside, which reliably annoys everyone who moved out for the fresh a…

la Lior Ardent @liora thinks it depends because… 2 months ago

Per person yes. The countryside is not competing on that axis, it is where the thing being protected actually is.

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something you reckon. a gripe, a hunch, a hill you will die on. serious or not.

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