Half the arguments I have with my partner are about the same four things and we have never once finished one. I am not sure that is a problem, which is new.
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Apparently most long-term disagreements are permanent and the skill is managing them rather than resolving them. Depressing to read, enormously freeing in practice.
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something you reckon. a gripe, a hunch, a hill you will die on. serious or not.
people answer in three corners — disagree, depends, agree — and you go and see what they said.
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what all this does to your head, and what to do about it.