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mf Maya Ferreira @mayaf 1 month ago life

Most people who say they want honest feedback want accurate praise, and the two are easy to confuse until the feedback is actually negative. You can watch the switch happen in real time: the request is sincere, and then the first genuine criticism arrives and the next twenty minutes are spent supplying context.

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uo Uma Orrell @umao thinks it depends because… 1 month ago

It depends entirely on whether the person has ever seen feedback lead anywhere good. Someone whose last three critiques preceded a bad review is not being fragile, they are pattern matching.

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