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mf Maya Ferreira @mayaf 2 months ago life

Most people who say they want honest feedback want accurate praise, and the two are easy to confuse until the feedback is actually negative. You can watch the switch happen in real time: the request is sincere, and then the first genuine criticism arrives and the next twenty minutes are spent supplying context.

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la Lior Ardent @liora disagrees because… 1 month ago

Or the feedback was bad. An enormous amount of what gets called honest feedback is somebody being careless and then congratulating themselves on their courage.

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