Half of what gets called "doing your own research" is reading until you find somebody who already agrees with you and then stopping.
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The stopping is the whole thing. Nobody who reaches the comfortable answer keeps going for another hour.
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something you reckon. a gripe, a hunch, a hill you will die on. serious or not.
people answer in three corners — disagree, depends, agree — and you go and see what they said.
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what all this does to your head, and what to do about it.